Questions Losers Run From
Stop wasting months discovering the same deal-breaker patterns. Get clarity by date 3—not year 3.
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No more discovering he doesn't want kids after 8 months. No more realizing—too late—that his "just needs more time" was never going to turn into commitment.
The 1,000+ questions in this guide do the heavy lifting for you, organized by what actually matters: his money values, conflict style, family vision, and emotional maturity. You'll stop flying blind and start vetting like the strategic woman you are.
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Relationship Experts Agree: You Need a Dating Strategy
The Gottman Institute studied over 3,000 couples¹ and found that Dr. John Gottman can predict divorce with 94% accuracy. The research is clear: couples who engage in destructive communication patterns—criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and avoiding conflict—face relationship failure with over 90% accuracy.² The couples who succeed? They ask deep questions about values, goals, and how they handle conflict before commitment.
Professional matchmakers know this too. That's why they achieve success rates of 70-80%—8x higher than dating apps' ~9% success rate.³ Their method? Ask hundreds of compatibility questions upfront, covering everything from money to family to conflict resolution.
I've done the research and synthesized the expert advice. This guide gives you their playbook. 1,000+ research-backed questions organized by what actually predicts long-term compatibility. Stop hoping. Start vetting.
Sources:
¹ Gottman Institute Research FAQ - https://www.gottman.com/about/research/faq
² The Gottman Institute, "The Four Horsemen" - https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-recognizing-criticism-contempt-defensiveness-and-stonewalling/
³ The Knot, "Matchmakers Are 'In' Again" - https://www.theknot.com/content/matchmakers
What's Inside This Guide
In this guide, I'll walk you through 1,000+ powerful questions across 40 relationship themes AND help you eliminate 90% of bad matches in as little as 2 weeks.
I'll help you uncover emotional maturity, values, and long-term compatibility
I'll guide you on how to ask the hard questions with confidence
I'll teach you how to spot red and green flags early
You'll stay accountable to your non-negotiables and deal breakers
You'll date from a place of clarity, not confusion
This Guide Is For Women Who...
Are done discovering he doesn't want kids 8 months in. You want to know his family plans by date 3, not year 2
Want to know his real money values before you're splitting rent and realizing he thinks $50K in credit card debt is "normal"
Refuse to waste another prime year on a man who "just needs more time" to figure out if he's serious
Are tired of finding out he's emotionally unavailable AFTER you've already caught feelings
Believe asking hard questions isn't "too much". It's called having standards, and you're not apologizing for them
Which Dating Path Are You On
Women Who Hope
Gives men "the benefit of the doubt" for months
Discovers deal-breakers after catching feelings
Wonders if she's "too picky" for having standards
Wastes 6-18 months per wrong relationship
Women Who Choose
Asks strategic questions from date one
Surfaces incompatibilities in weeks, not years
Knows her standards aren't negotiable
Finds the right man in 1/3 the time
Which One Are You Ready To Be?
My Gift To You
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The Hardest Questions to Ask (But Must)
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Nice to Have & Deal-Breakers Worksheet
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— Marisol G.
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The women who waste years on the wrong men aren't asking the wrong questions. They're not asking questions at all.
And here's what that costs them: months discovering he doesn't want kids, he hates his career or thinks commitments means "we'll see." Years with someone emotionally unavailable. Prime dating years gone because they didn't vet early or properly.
Every day you wait is another day that cycle continues.
You already know what happens when you don't ask the right questions—you've lived it.
You've already wasted enough time.
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